So she sat in her wedding silks, nursing a cup of honeyed wine, afraid to eat, talking silently to herself. “I am blood of the dragon”, she told herself. “I am Daenerys Stormborn, Princess of Dragonstone, of the blood and seed of Aegon the Conqueror.”
AGOT 11 – DAENERYS II (GRRM)
POV character Daenerys Targaryen 2
Chapter (AGOT) 12 / 73
Chapter (ASOIAF) 12 / 344
Summary
Khal Drogo has summoned his whole “khalasar” to attend the wedding. 40000 fierce warriors with at least as much children, women and slaves are camping outside of Pentos. This makes the city officials very nervous, but Illyrio seems to manage to keep them calm. Viserys is impatient, but Illyrio and Mormont (who had offered his sword to the Targaryen) assure him, that the Khal will pay his debt as he had promised him a crown. But they also state that the Khal will chose the right time and Viserys has to be patient.
The wedding feast is going on all day and a huge number of people is attending. Her brother is furious (as always) as she is seated “above” him, although his place is one of greatest honor, only below the so-called blood riders of the Khal. Daenerys is afraid, nervous and alone, but she keeps her smile (as her brother told her). She has nobody to talk and is not hungry, she thinks about how she and the Khal do not even share one language.
During the feast there is dancing, fighting, eating and all kinds of “amusement”. Daenerys sees her first man die before noon as warroirs fight over women. The Dothraki customs are raw and savage, and in the end 12 people died at her wedding. Her bride gifts are three female servants by her brother, books in common tongue by Jorah and three petrified dragon eggs from Illyrio.
In addition Drogo’s bloodriders offer three weapons (as is custom) and she refuses them (as is custom) and gives them to her husband (as is custom). She receives more gifts by others and in the end she has “more gifts than she could want or use”. In the end the Khal himself brings his gift -a splendid, invaluable grey horse with silver mane. Successfully she rides the filly through the khalasar and after that Drogo smiles for the first time.
The fear comes back to Daenerys afterwards, because the most fearsome thing is about to happen: the wedding night. Drogo and she ride into the dark grassland where they find a spot and undress each other. Drogo is much more gentle than she ever expected and he does take care not hurting her and even (at the last moment) asks for her approval.
Thoughts
- This is a POV-chapter from Dany, but especially the first few paragraphs seem not to be written from her point of view. Not even the excuse of her attendance is given here, only a few paragraphs later she thinks about dragons.
- I wonder where Illyrio got the eggs from. We know that he and Varys brokered that whole wedding (and Illyrio got horses and slaves), but where did they get the eggs from. Illyrio tells Dany “from the shadow lands of Asshai” – but is this realistic or just his way of telling “from far away”? Asshai is (in my point of view) mostly the “exotic land far away” – at least in Essos. Because in Westeros all of Essos is “exotic and far away”.
- Did Illyrio know that the dragons will hatch? That is a very high-stakes gamble, on the other hand dragon-eggs (at least) are still a good “sign” to give a member of the Targaryens. It adds to her whole credibility as offspring from the “House of the Dragon”.
- I really could not remember the feast that much, but I am relieved – I somehow did not remember, that Drogo asked for Daenery’s approval and I do not know how it is depicted in the series (still – she is thirteen, that is cringy).
- Book vs. show:
- I can not remember how the feast or anything from that chapter is depicted in the show. So no comments on that.